30
Years in mental health
27
Years of clinical practice
1M+
One million+ readers reached monthly via GoodTherapy.org, as Founder and former CEO
25 years of
providing
IFS therapy
Noah trained in IFS directly with its developer, Richard Schwartz, PhD, beginning in 2002. He went on to assist in IFS trainings, host workshops, and supervise other IFS therapists. In 2007 he founded GoodTherapy.org, one of the world’s leading mental health resources, which he led until 2018.
Some of the things
I help people with...
People come to therapy for many reasons. Some know exactly what hurts, others know that something just doesn't feel right. When something's off it can show up in how you relate to yourself, how you relate to others, how you cope with stress or pain, or in the distance between how you feel and how you'd like to feel.
WHAT I OFFER
Two ways we might work together.
Each begins with a free 15 minute consultation so we can briefly connect and see whether the fit feels right.
Individual IFS Psychotherapy
For adults who want to better understand themselves, work through painful or long standing patterns, and create deeper, more lasting change. My work is strongly informed by Internal Family Systems therapy, which helps us approach the parts of ourselves that struggle, react, protect, defend, or carry hurt and fear with curiosity and compassion, so that old patterns can begin to loosen and new ways of being can emerge.
Couples and Marriage Counseling
For couples who feel distant, conflicted, or caught in patterns they don’t know how to change. Couples therapy can help each person communicate more openly and understand one another more deeply, so that both partners feel heard, cared for, and less alone in the relationship. Along the way, couples begin to recognize the patterns they create together and learn new ways of responding that can bring more understanding, connection, and compassion into difficult moments.
When Personal Growth Becomes the Next Chapter
Sometimes people come to therapy not just because life feels hard, but because they sense they're capable of living and feeling differently. They may be tired of repeating the same old patterns, reacting in ways that no longer fit who they want to be, or feeling held back by fear, self doubt, or long held ways of coping. Online therapy, which meets by video or phone, makes it easy to fit therapy into everyday life while still creating space for authentic reflection and real change. Therapy can help you understand what's been getting in the way of being the person you want to be, what parts of you still need care and attention, and the qualities you want to feel, such as confidence, optimism, inner peace, trust, and a deeper sense of being yourself.
Not everyone begins therapy because life is in immediate crisis. Sometimes people begin because they can feel a new chapter wanting to begin.
They may have already done a great deal of living, striving, healing, reflecting, or enduring. They may have learned how to function responsibly, maintain relationships, build a career, raise children, or survive difficult seasons. On the outside, life may appear relatively stable. But inwardly, something is shifting. A person starts sensing that the old way of living, even if it once made sense, no longer feels like the full story of who they are becoming.
This often brings a particular kind of restlessness. Not the restlessness of emergency, but the restlessness of possibility. A person may feel ready to grow, but unsure what that growth actually requires. They may know they want more depth, more honesty, more freedom, or more inner peace, yet still feel pulled by old habits, old fears, and familiar ways of being.
This is where therapy can become especially meaningful. Not only as a place to work through suffering, but as a place to support the next stage of becoming.
Growth often begins when old identities stop fitting
There are times when people realize that the self they have been living from is no longer sufficient.
They may have spent years being competent, protective, dependable, self controlled, or accommodating. Those ways of being may have helped them accomplish a great deal. But eventually a person can start to feel the limits of an identity built too narrowly around coping, pleasing, performing, or staying safe.
When that happens, life can start feeling constrained in ways that are hard to explain. A person may not want to live as reactively as they once did. They may want more room for truth, creativity, spontaneity, tenderness, or depth. They may want to stop organizing life around avoidance and begin living from something more fully chosen.
Therapy can support this kind of transition by helping people understand not only what they want to change, but what has made change difficult. It can create a place where growth is not reduced to self improvement pressure, but understood as a more honest relationship with oneself. If you want a broader sense of my approach, how I help people and what I help people with offer a grounded overview.
Personal growth is not always about adding more
Sometimes people imagine growth as acquiring new skills, new insight, or better habits. Sometimes it includes those things. But often the deeper movement is not about adding more. It is about loosening what has become too rigid.
It may mean becoming less governed by fear. Less fused with self criticism. Less driven by old expectations. Less committed to an image of who you are supposed to be. Growth can involve letting go of patterns that once felt necessary but now keep you confined.
This can be surprisingly vulnerable. Even positive change can stir uncertainty. A person may wonder who they are without the familiar roles, pressures, and defenses that have shaped so much of life. They may feel both drawn toward growth and afraid of what it might ask of them.
That ambivalence is normal. Therapy can make room for both the longing and the fear, which is often what allows something real to begin moving. For people who are still considering whether therapy feels like the right next step, how to find the right therapist can offer a practical starting point.
The next chapter often asks for more inner honesty
What many people call growth is really a deepening relationship with truth.
They begin telling the truth about what no longer works. About what they want. About what hurts. About the ways they have adapted that once felt necessary but now feel constricting. They stop measuring their life only by outer success or outward steadiness, and begin listening for whether life feels real from the inside.
If you are looking for a therapist in Yakima, WA, therapy can be a place to support that kind of inner shift. It can help you explore what wants to emerge next, while also understanding the protective patterns that may still be holding the old chapter in place.
This kind of work does not have to be dramatic to be profound. Sometimes the most important change begins with a person becoming just a little more honest, a little more curious, and a little less at war with themselves. Over time, those quieter shifts can open into something much larger.
Because therapy can involve significant vulnerability, it also matters that the process feels grounded and trustworthy. If that matters to you, confidentiality in therapy may help answer some of the questions people often have before starting.
Growth becomes sustainable when it is compassionate
One of the traps people fall into is turning personal growth into another demand. Another project to succeed at. Another reason to judge themselves for not changing fast enough.
But meaningful change rarely grows well in harshness.
It grows more deeply when there is patience, compassion, and enough understanding to see why old patterns formed in the first place. Therapy can help create that kind of environment. It can support movement without force, insight without self attack, and change that feels integrated rather than imposed.
For many people, that is what makes personal growth stop feeling abstract and start becoming real.
Schedule a Free Phone Consultation
If this approach resonates with you, you can learn more about Noah or schedule a complimentary phone consultation. That first conversation can help you get a feel for whether this work seems like the right fit for where you are right now.
About Yakima, Washington
Yakima is widely described as the heart of Central Washington, and the city highlights its role as a regional center for business, education, health services, and government. In a place where many people are balancing practical demands with a desire for a fuller inner life, therapy can become a place to reflect more deeply on what the next chapter of growth is asking for.